My latest and recurring mistake I would say is that I don’t fight back, I am a very passive person and if someone is above me I took everything they say as the truth. The problem with this if they are wrong then I will take this information and think that they must be right even if I feel otherwise.
Without going into too much detail, I have been told how to DJ and promote like someone else, the problem with this is it is taking me out of my comfort zone, which in turn making me feel pressured and unorganised, which will then have an effect on my playing. A simple “So and so does this, you should do that too” and me not fighting back and just saying yes, can actually throw off my whole night, especially when since I started my main mentally was to be different from “So and so”.
There are things that come to mind when thinking about the fighting back, “Don’t bite the hand that feeds you”, “Pick your Battles” ect. When I believe that something is not correct I need to stand up for what I feel or at least voice my opinion as much of struggle that will be for me I think that it will benefit me not just with the one person but every aspect of life.